Excuse me, but could you please clarify the context of your question? The phrase "What we use with someone does or do?" seems a bit unclear without further context. However, I'll try to address it in a general sense.
Are you asking about the actions or behaviors we engage in with others, and how those actions might be influenced by the tools or resources we use? For instance, do the tools or platforms we utilize when interacting with someone affect how we communicate or collaborate with them? Or are you referring to the consequences of our actions, and how they might differ depending on the means we use?
Without a more specific scenario in mind, it's difficult to give a precise answer. But generally speaking, the tools and resources we use can certainly shape the nature of our interactions with others, and the outcomes of those interactions. Whether it's a simple conversation, a complex project, or a financial transaction, the tools and platforms we employ can have a significant impact on the "does or do" of our interactions.